Adultery By Mind

Without a grain of animosity,
Man and woman cannot remain together
Having no amatory intend.
Adultery in mind is not eschewable.
28.10.2010

by Rm.Shanmugam Chettiar.

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This sonnet has much of interest for those seeking to delve to the root the nature of Shakespeare's passion. Many have thought that it contains clues, anagrams and acrostics of the young man's name. As KDJ points out, its placing here, as sonnet 20, probably relates to the primitive associations of the number with human anatomy, each human having 20 digits (fingers and toes) in all. Clearly this might be one of the key sonnets which could unlock the secrets of Shakespeare's heart. At some stage any reader has to come to terms with the implicit sexuality contained in it, for it is an open declaration of love by one man for another man, something which few ages in the history of the world have been able to view with complete equanimity. But we should not exaggerate the importance of this one humorous exercise of wit so as to make it into a credo of the whole sonnet sequence. Declarations of love abound in what follows, and this sonnet is not exceptional in that respect. In fact it has more appeal as a display of ingenuity than as a deeply committed betrothal scene. Although it does undoubtedly underline some of the contradictions that arise when one man loves another, Christian charity demands that we do not overstress this, for love is love in whatever sphere it moves, and the love which Shakespeare describes in 1-126 seems to be infinitely more altruistic and self-giving than that of the poisonous love of the dark lady sonnets which conclude the sequence. shakespeares-sonnets.com/sonnet
.. 'You were created by Nature as a woman but more beautiful than any woman, for you do not have their faults. But Nature changed her mind as she made you, and turned you into a man, for she herself adored you, and, perhaps desiring congress, gave you male parts. Therefore I cannot love you with the fulness that I would love a woman. But let me have your real love, while women enjoy the physical manifestation of it, which I know to be merely a superficies'.
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One other point of interest regarding this sonnet: the metre. Shakespeare wrote his sonnet sequence in iambic pentameter. This poem however has strict hendecasyllabic (eleven syllable) lines. Each line has an extra unstressed half-foot on the end of it. In poetry this is known as a 'feminine' or 'soft' ending. Shakespeare was basically having a joke - he wrote feminine lines to a young man, it's a metrical pun. He also alludes to this in line 12 through a clever double meaning regarding 'by adding one thing'. Anyway hope you guys find that interesting, it's one of the reasons I love this sonnet!
Shakespeare begins by praising what he considers are the young man's positive feminine attributes (his natural beauty, gentle heart) but noting that he has none of the negative attributes of women (infidelity, being fickle) . He displays deep love and admiration for his friend. Shakespeare goes on to say that Nature first designed the young man to be a woman, but as she was creating him fell in love, and gave him a penis instead ('By adding one thing' / 'Prick'd thee out for women's pleasure') . Since Shakespeare isn't attracted sexually to men, he must be content to share only love (without sex) with the young man. People always point to this as proof that Shakespeare was gay, but this poem is actually staunchly heterosexual. The couplet gives it away. 'Mine be thy love' means that Shakespeare will have his love, and leave 'thy love's use' i.e. sex, to women. That's not to say Shakespeare was gay, nobody can know with certainty, but this poem certainly doesn't support the notion.
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