Why It Hurts, When People Leave You! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! 1

To meet and to depart is a story of every human heart
but lets depart with a smile on face today,
With a hope to meet other fine day! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! !

Why it hurts, when people leave you...

When we meet someone we feel happy and at times we meet someone who manage to touch our heart…
Before we can realize that special one becomes the part of your life. We assume that the person will stay with us forever, may what happen….

Life becomes beautiful like never before and worth living and the person is worth dying for…………….

Hold on friends, nothing is static, before we can accept the fact that we are attached to the person suddenly winds change their direction and the soothing cool breeze changes into the thunderstorm when we get the news that the person is leaving and going away…

We feel helpless…

But still with a smile on the face we bid farewell and wish for thy happiness…

The fear of loosing that special person crops up and when the person changes its style after the change in place it hurts…It hurts to know that someone has changed …it hurts to know that we no more hold that place in someone’s life when our days starts with the prayer of their well being and ends in the expecting a one line message in the mail box or to hear that special ring tone that you have specially assigned to that name in order not to miss that special and much awaited call amongst the numerous calls you receive in a single day

When you feel that other person is so busy in his/her so-called new life that it’s difficult for them to find 5 mins to leave a message or pick the phone and say hi Dear! I am m fine and safe u take care………

Is that something unreasonable that we are asking or demanding? ?

That’s the time when we step out of the comfort zone and restlessness rules out heart and mind. We just crave to be close to that person, as we believe that it’s the distance that has changed the person…. That is the time when we wish to change the world and…………….But alas! ! ! ! ! We can’t do anything.
But we learn to live with the pain and the hope starts fading over a period of time…


But remember time alone can prove the worth of any relationship.
As time goes by, we loose the false ones and only the best ones are restored!

On one had it hurts when your fear of loosing a close one hurts on the other hand if your fears don’t come true you regain that comfort and your life becomes normal over period of time.

If despite the distance the presence of someone still makes you happy, If still the person showers same care and love then may the world change for him but he/she is still the same for you and someone really worth dying for…

We gradually relies that the life has to move on and the show has to go on! !

Change is the only constant but as the presence of someone has made a change in your life you adapt yourself to the change and the person who has brought the change becomes a part of your life and stays with you the entire life in your memories occupying a special place in your heart and we just pray that in which ever part of the world that special someone is staying is beautiful enough to make that part of your heart happy….

At times we miss their presence but we live with the hope that someday we will get the chance of meeting all such people who have touched our lives in one or the other way…

We all wait for that other fine day! ! ! ! !


'Life is not only about missing someone’s presence but its all about living up to what made someone’s presence beautiful ': -)

by Arohi Agarwal

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